Why not me?

Did you ever meet someone, go out for a couple of months and then the texts and phone calls get further and further apart and before you know it he is saying sorry I don’t feel it any more or you just never hear from him again. Ever go to a bar with your friends and the guy that catches your eye across the room comes towards you and goes straight to your friend. Have you ever been fixed up with someone, but go out in a group and he likes someone else in your group. Ever wonder why certain guys don’t write you back, when you write to them online. Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to ask that guy that didn’t choose you, WHY NOT ME? Then I wonder what would that do, would it help? If we were to change what each guy didn’t like about us, then we wouldn’t be ourselves and maybe wouldn’t be happy. So do we really want to know so we can change or are we just curious why we weren’t their choice. It’s not easy being rejected and no not everyone is our cup of tea, but to make a decision that a person is not for you from a couple of pictures and a couple of lines about themselves, to me just doesn’t seem fair. It would be nice if we could go back to the old fashion blind dates. I know women that have lost a lot of weight after their divorce and all of a sudden they have more attention then they can handle. My question to those men is, will you still be so head over heels with that woman if she gains the weight back? The same goes for a woman, if you meet a guy and he lost his marriage weight, as I call it, gains it all back, will you still feel the same about him? Finding that special person shouldn’t be this hard. What is the answer, that is the most simplest yet complicated of questions. PLEASE FOLLOW ME IF YOU LIKE MY BLOG AND YOU WILL GET NOTIFIED WHEN THERE IS A NEW POST. THANKS!


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