Go for what you want….

Sometimes as much as you want things to go back to the way they were, can they? I believe everyone changes in time, we grow, improve, priorities change and we move on. Sometimes people stay in the same job, situation, relationship, etc., because let’s face it, the unknown is scary. Starting anything new, is scary, but sometimes a good thing. Sometimes it doesn’t work out, we don’t succeed. When that happens it stinks, but we learn from the experience. I have learned life is to short, so now I take those chances, say how I feel, even though sometimes things don’t work out how I wanted them too. Sometimes they are better than they were before. Sometimes we just have to be patient and give something time. Not everything can happen when we want it to, but if we can be patient, it will be worth the wait. So say how you feel, take that job, go outside your comfort zone and you just may, in time, get what you want. And if you don’t get the outcome you want, at least you will not wonder what if. Life is to be enjoyed, as yesterday is gone, tomorrow isn’t here yet, but today is a present. If something is worth waiting for, then wait for it, as the saying goes “good things come to those that wait”. Just don’t sit around waiting your whole life for it. Go after what you want, as you deserve nothing but the best. Now I’m not saying stalk someone until they agree to go out with you, but within reason. So be happy, don’t live in unhappy, as no tomorrow is guaranteed! “Live Love laugh” and have amazing experiences!


I can’t wait…

You to me seem so sweet, kind and caring

You seem to have so many qualities I find endearing

The details you have given are so many yet so few

I can’t wait to get to know all there is about you

I can’t wait to meet you and share a meal

I can’t wait to find out from you how a hug would feel

I hope when we meet you feel I am someone you would select

I hope when we meet you and I feel that we connect

If we do it would be nice to walk with you under the moon and stars

Talk and walk with you from here to mars

Maybe some day watch a sunset on the beach with you

A sun rise maybe some day, would be amazing too

© 2017 Teri Fitzgerald.

Online dating….

Well I’m hitting the online dating sites again. I don’t know how I feel about a football or hockey game for a first date. I love sports and nothing beats a live game, but if the first date doesn’t go well, then you are with them for the several hours and the ride home could be horrible. The other option is dinner and a play in NYC, again great first date if you hit it off, but if you don’t then you are locked into several hours with this person. The up side is during the play you don’t have to talk. I very much prefer to meet for coffee and see if there is a connection first, but if their schedule doesn’t allow that, then do you go ahead and commit to a sporting event or night in the city or decline all together. Part of me says go ahead it’s a night out and make the best of it even if you don’t have a connection and part of me says wait until they have time for coffee. How I don’t like the online dating thing. Any thoughts anyone would like to share?

Potential Mr. Incredible

Some times we just need to move on and tonight I did. I met the hopeful and potential Mr. Incredible. We had a great dinner and conversation. He stimulated my mind and body. I love someone that I can have an intelligent conversation with, can make me laugh, I enjoy their company and of course stimulates my body. He is someone I have seen several times before, but didn’t give much thought to him, as I was spending time with Mr. Amazing. When dinner was over, he walked me to my car. On the way to the car he stopped, placed his hand on my neck behind my hair, looked into my eyes, thanked me for a great night, then gave me a sweet and gentle kiss. And then we continued on to my car. When we got to my car he gave me a hug, this time gave me a passionate kiss. I invited him to sit in my car. He smiled and said “I would love to, but I am going to be a gentleman and decline” he then asked if I had plans for the weekend. I told him I didn’t, except for Sunday. He then asked if I wanted to join him in AC Friday night. He said he wanted to make a reservation at a nice restaurant and make it a special evening for the first time we would spent the night together. I smiled and accepted. He said he will pick me up early Friday morning, so we can stop at Smithville, walk around in the shops and have a nice lunch before heading to AC to check into the hotel. He then kissed me goodbye and told me to text him when I got home.

When I arrived home I text him that I had arrived home safe and sound. He thanked me again for a great evening and said he looked forward to spending Friday with me. I have to say I’m a little nervous, as I am use to amazing sex and so hoping I will not be disappointed. I don’t think I will, as we have had conversation and he seems to be very creative and pleasing in the bedroom. I will be packing my bag of toys and try out my surprise seduction.

Stay tuned to see if he is Mr. Incredible. I think he has great potential to take on the title.


I would love for you to contact me!!! Don’t be a coward go ahead contact me ask me anything and I will tell you the truth!!! Read carefully!!!! You are pathetic!!! I am done as I will no longer sensor my posts!!! Move on or accept it!!! How about not reading my blog!!! And thanks for the compliment that your life is so pathetic that you have to stalk me! I can’t help it if you can’t make someone happy!!! Move on or accept the way things are!!! Watch for Mr. Incredible ;)))))

What do you want?

So to my readers and if you leave a comment I will not have any info on you….please leave what you want to hear or have me write about….thank you….

I want…..

I want so many things for me

I want so many that are free

I want honesty not lies

I want someone that makes me laugh not cries

I want someone committed to me not still fishing

I want someone done looking not still soliciting

I want someone that brings a smile to my face not a frown

I want someone that lifts me up not brings me down

I want someone with me all the way not part way

I want someone to stay and that will not stray

I want someone that will not break my heart

I want someone that will not tear it apart

I want someone to hold me tight

I want someone to make my heart ignite

I want all the things money can’t buy

I want all this in my very special guy

I want happiness, love and joy

I want all this all mine to enjoy

And none of this costs a dime

And I want it all to be mine

© 2017 Teri Fitzgerald.