Online dating….

Well I’m hitting the online dating sites again. I don’t know how I feel about a football or hockey game for a first date. I love sports and nothing beats a live game, but if the first date doesn’t go well, then you are with them for the several hours and the ride home could be horrible. The other option is dinner and a play in NYC, again great first date if you hit it off, but if you don’t then you are locked into several hours with this person. The up side is during the play you don’t have to talk. I very much prefer to meet for coffee and see if there is a connection first, but if their schedule doesn’t allow that, then do you go ahead and commit to a sporting event or night in the city or decline all together. Part of me says go ahead it’s a night out and make the best of it even if you don’t have a connection and part of me says wait until they have time for coffee. How I don’t like the online dating thing. Any thoughts anyone would like to share?

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Potential Mr. Incredible

Some times we just need to move on and tonight I did. I met the hopeful and potential Mr. Incredible. We had a great dinner and conversation. He stimulated my mind and body. I love someone that I can have an intelligent conversation with, can make me laugh, I enjoy their company and of course stimulates my body. He is someone I have seen several times before, but didn’t give much thought to him, as I was spending time with Mr. Amazing. When dinner was over, he walked me to my car. On the way to the car he stopped, placed his hand on my neck behind my hair, looked into my eyes, thanked me for a great night, then gave me a sweet and gentle kiss. And then we continued on to my car. When we got to my car he gave me a hug, this time gave me a passionate kiss. I invited him to sit in my car. He smiled and said “I would love to, but I am going to be a gentleman and decline” he then asked if I had plans for the weekend. I told him I didn’t, except for Sunday. He then asked if I wanted to join him in AC Friday night. He said he wanted to make a reservation at a nice restaurant and make it a special evening for the first time we would spent the night together. I smiled and accepted. He said he will pick me up early Friday morning, so we can stop at Smithville, walk around in the shops and have a nice lunch before heading to AC to check into the hotel. He then kissed me goodbye and told me to text him when I got home.

When I arrived home I text him that I had arrived home safe and sound. He thanked me again for a great evening and said he looked forward to spending Friday with me. I have to say I’m a little nervous, as I am use to amazing sex and so hoping I will not be disappointed. I don’t think I will, as we have had conversation and he seems to be very creative and pleasing in the bedroom. I will be packing my bag of toys and try out my surprise seduction.

Stay tuned to see if he is Mr. Incredible. I think he has great potential to take on the title.

To my STALKER

I would love for you to contact me!!! Don’t be a coward go ahead contact me ask me anything and I will tell you the truth!!! Read carefully!!!! You are pathetic!!! I am done as I will no longer sensor my posts!!! Move on or accept it!!! How about not reading my blog!!! And thanks for the compliment that your life is so pathetic that you have to stalk me! I can’t help it if you can’t make someone happy!!! Move on or accept the way things are!!! Watch for Mr. Incredible ;)))))

What do you want?

So to my readers and if you leave a comment I will not have any info on you….please leave what you want to hear or have me write about….thank you….

Dear Friend

When I heard the news I could not breathe

I could not believe that you would leave

I said that the newspaper had lied

I would not believe that you could have died

I made a call to confirm what I had feared

And your aunt said it was true we had lost someone dear

When I went to say my good byes to you

I couldn’t handle seeing you laying there and out the door I flew

I couldn’t believe laying there was my best friend

I couldn’t believe your life had come to an end

I think of you and miss you every day

Especially the first of April and the eighth of May

I will see you again some day my friend

When my time on this earth does come to an end

I will hold you close in my heart until then

And enjoy each day I have been given from beginning to end

© 2013 Teri Fitzgerald.

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Are people really unhappy or afraid to tell the truth?

Why is it that you hear over and over again from friends, family or people in general, how truly unhappy they are in their current relationship. You are there to listen to them complain, cry on your shoulder for break up after break up, yet they continue to run back to that person, time after time. Meanwhile, they tell you how wonderful you are, great friend, always there for them and they can’t understand how come you haven’t been able to find someone, as anyone would be so lucky to have you. You begin to wonder, what am I doing wrong? The people they are with are either moody, bitchy, demanding, make them feel worthless, make them feel guilty, withhold sex or all these things. Makes you wonder if this is what people want and if you should become like them, then maybe you would become more desirable. They say they are unhappy and are constantly complaining, yet they keep going back for more. It makes you wonder if these people are afraid to leave the person and be alone. You wonder if they are afraid of never finding another person that wants to be with them. If they don’t see themselves as desirable, to others. Has that person become a habit to them? You also wonder if you are getting the whole truth, as you are only hearing their side and not the other person’s side. You wonder if they are telling you these things, so you will boost their ego and tell them how amazing they are and that the person they are with should count themselves lucky to have them. So I wonder do people like being unhappy? Do they like feeling worthless? Do they like the drama of fight after fight? Is this a turn on for them? Do they have that low a self-esteem? Or are they telling you fabricated fairy tales, so you will feel sorry for them? It is the same with the people who’s online dating profile says they can’t wait to meet that someone special and get off the site. Here you are going on date after date and even make a connections, but can’t get someone who wants to see you on a regular basis, or even a second date, as they are content with a phone or texting relationship. You meet, have a connection, great time, talk for hours on the phone, even go on several dates, yet they are still fishing for a better fish. It makes me think that honest and true people are hard to come by and are the minority these days. So are people afraid of telling the truth? Afraid of being hurt? Afraid of being alone? Or just all around afraid? I have said this before, I did this once and will never settle again. We all deserve to be happy and I would rather be alone and unhappy than with someone and be miserable. Staying with someone you are unhappy with is not just unfair to you, but unfair to the person you are with.